TeaTime Devotional July 2nd, 2025

Written By:  Kiki Nixon

Scripture: Proverbs 10:19 NIV

“Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues.”

Testify:

I can testify to a number of times when I have spoken unwisely in situations and let my emotions do the talking.  I found that each time I did that it left me with regret and conviction, along with me always needing to apologize.  As I mature in Christ and age, I catch myself being wiser and taking a step back before speaking impulsively or out of emotion.  Not to spare the other person, but to protect me peace because I now understand that my peace is important.  I have yet to master this, but I am a work in progress.  

Edify:

Let’s breakdown this scripture into parts. “Sin is not ended by multiplying words” meaning talking more doesn’t solve sin but in fact could make it worse, especially in emotionally charged situations. We will often say things we don’t mean and will later regret.  Therefore, less words can sometimes be more effective. “But the prudent holds their tongue” a prudent person is wise, thoughtful and self-controlled.  Instead of speaking impulsively they choose silence or speak carefully.  Hold is defined as “to keep or detain or the power of control”.  Put together, these definitions mean that we don’t always have to use words to win an argument.   Displaying self-control is the key to being wise.   So, in our modern-day language, SAY LESS. 

Apply:

In feelings of anger and hurt or whether in conflict it’s wiser to SAY LESS. Being more intentional with words can prevent sin, like cursing, lashing out or saying words that can’t be taken back. Think before you speak, not every action requires a reaction. Wisdom sometimes looks like restraint. Just because you can say something doesn’t mean you should. Sometimes silence is the most God honoring response.